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A Soul’s Worth

The direction she gave was exactly as my mother taught, so I knew it to be a perennial truth, even though I was five years old. Our kindergarten teacher, Ms. Olive Garrett, took Richard by the hand, whispering in his ear, showing him how to share the wooden blocks he was hoarding. I was the student […]

Misfit

Loss has made me a misfit. Lost in my own life. My older brother died recently. Though I had in many ways been hoping for his release from the sufferings of disease, even expected it for about a week, it came as a shock. And with the shock, came a world of paralyzing sorrow. Strong family roots, shared values […]

Don’t Tell Me – Mar. 23, 2022

Do not tell methis will make memore grateful for whatI had.…Give me insteadthe blessingof sitting with mewhen you cannot thinkof what to say. –Jan Richardson, from “The Blessing You Should Not Tell Me,” The Cure for Sorrow, p. 54

Never Alone – Nov. 5, 2021

“When things fall apart and we can’t get the pieces back together, when we lose something dear to us, when they whole thing is just not working and we don’t know what to do, this is the time when the natural warmth of tenderness, the warmth of empathy and kindness, are just waiting to be […]