“It is because we belong with others and see them as brothers and sisters in humanity that we learn not only to accept them as they are, with different gifts and capacities, but to see each one as a person with a vulnerable heart. We learn to forgive those who hurt us or reject us, we ask forgiveness of those we have hurt. We learn to accept humbly those who point out our errors and mistakes and who challenge us to grow in truth and love. We support and encourage each other on the journey to inner freedom. We learn how to be close to those who are weaker and more vulnerable, those who may be sick or going through crises or are grieving. As we accept our personal limits and weaknesses, we discover that we need others and we learn to appreciate others and to thank them.”
–Jean Vanier, Becoming Human
I wonder why the Church of the Savior in Washington DC is choosing to quote Jean Vanier?
While there is no question that he–and community workers–have done immense good through the L’Arche communities…….Vanier’s life and his words need to be seen in this sad and deeply disturbing context:
“In February 2020, L’Arche International released the results of an independent investigation that it commissioned into Jean Vanier, who died in 2019. The investigation determined that the L’Arche founder, Catholic philosopher and humanitarian engaged in manipulative sexual relationships with at least six women from 1970-2005. None of the women had disabilities.”
https://www.larcheusa.org/news_article/summary-report-from-larche-international/
Either “Inward/Outward Together” is sharing a Vanier quote unknowingly, which in itself is surprising, or has knowingly chosen to share–especially this particular quote–without any context, explanation, or disclaimer–which is very concerning.
The answer lies in your comment, that despite Vanier’s shortcomings he did “immense good through the L’Arche communities” to which CoS are closely in fellowship. We do not believe that Vanier’s wisdom is now off limits. He had a lot of incredible things to say about community and Christ’s love therein, and acted on it, eventhough we now know he did not respect proper boundaries at times. This should be a lesson to us that no hero is perfect, and a reminder to hold all teachings in the ever present human context of failure to live perfectly.
I have always been fascinated by these wagon wheels with their wide rims, strong wooden spokes, and big hubs. These wheels help be understand the importance of a life lived from the center. When I move along the rim, I can reach one spoke after the other, but when I stay at the ub I am in touch with all the spokes at once, Henri Nouwen, Here and Now
Locate family members, friends, colleagues and significant relationships both in and outside the circle.
Think about who is inside and who’s out and why
Pray for those inside your circle, Pray for those outside your circle.