We enter the party. Our eyes scan the room looking for someone we know, something familiar. Perhaps we seek out the person or position at the table that will help us feel good about ourselves. It is a human trait to want to belong, feel secure, and be appreciated. That’s not bad, unless all that becomes our primary motivation and we lose sight of God’s perspective and vision.
Today’s gospel reading* says to think and see and act beyond ourselves. Don’t seek honor, but be honored by God through being a friend to the lowly and welcoming into the room those who have nothing to give you but their humanity. You will find that by recognizing our common humanity, God gives us the best honor of all: realizing our Godliness.
Throughout the gospels, Jesus always notices the persons not at the party, not at the welcome table, not in leadership, not a part of the envisioning process, not in your church, not living next door, not allowed in. And he asks us, “What about them? What might they have to say and contribute? What might they teach you? What might you learn about God by putting yourself out there for the vulnerable other? Be with them, and by your presence they will know Christ.”
Again and again we are invited by Christ into God’s upside-down kingdom in our midst, as we courageously step into it. Where everyone is loved. Where everyone is invited to a banquet of joy, enough for all, celebration, and holy communion.
In opening our doors to persons and communities who are different from us, we will be challenged. Jesus challenges us all the time—to be our best selves. Opening ourselves to another’s pain and suffering will hurt. And God is right there with us wanting to touch us deeply and heal us and help us realize our one nature and original belonging and wholeness in God.
For reflection:
- Who do I see embodying a spirit of humility and welcome?
- What privilege am I willing to give up so others can have a place at the table?
- Where might I give myself a little bit more in a Christ-like way?
–Trish Stefanik, Overlook Retreat House at Dayspring
