“I have said that I don’t know what I should have, and you probably don’t know what you should have. But I think one of the most powerful things we can do for one another is to tell our stories. “This is what I have; this is what I give away; this is what I feel is right for me at this moment. But let me really tell you in detail.” If we start telling these stories to one another, and if we listen to the stories, I believe healing will take place, and we will be given insight as to what is appropriate and what is right.”

–Gordon Cosby, “How Much is Enough?” in By Grace Transformed